When were you first in a group of women? - Did you have a positive, rich and deep experience of the feminine divine or was it negative, 'bitchy', competitive and uncomfortable? We as woman can be so hard on each other. The ugly green jealous monster rears it head and we end up being just mean to each other! My first experience with a group of women was very positive. I was 18, at my first real job after school and the ladies I worked with in the child care center invited me t